Paranoia

Paranoia Makes All The Difference

Years ago, in a meeting, a client said to me, “Good grief, Patricia. You must have a PhD in Paranoia.” Another client told me I was a “Little dark storm cloud.”   Well, this is what happens when you don’t let clients get away with DIY solutions, sweeping problems under the rug, or sticking their…

estate planning

Stonewall Was a Riot

When I think about estate planning and the LBGT+ community, I think of the 1980s. I think about statutes that gave parents automatic authority to make health care decisions for an unmarried adult child and the impact that had on men dying of AIDS and their partners.   I think about the inability to marry and…