Paranoia

Paranoia Makes All The Difference

Years ago, in a meeting, a client said to me, “Good grief, Patricia. You must have a PhD in Paranoia.” Another client told me I was a “Little dark storm cloud.”   Well, this is what happens when you don’t let clients get away with DIY solutions, sweeping problems under the rug, or sticking their…

estate planning

Stonewall Was a Riot

When I think about estate planning and the LBGT+ community, I think of the 1980s. I think about statutes that gave parents automatic authority to make health care decisions for an unmarried adult child and the impact that had on men dying of AIDS and their partners.   I think about the inability to marry and…

Keeping the Peace After You’re Gone

The goal of any good estate plan is to preserve family harmony. This means making decisions that will last the test of time, having a document flexible enough to allow a successor trustee and an adult beneficiary to make smart tax and asset protection choices, and taking personal relationships and personalities into consideration when assigning roles and naming beneficiaries.…

Estate Planning Safeguards Women

It’s women’s history month!  Estate planning safeguards women – single women, married women, widowed women, divorced women, mothers, women who do not have children, trans women – ALL WOMEN. Rich women, poor women, all women!   How Estate Planning Protects Women   Incapacity Planning:  Who would be in charge of your assets if you could…

Estate Planning Is Not What You Think It Is

Estate planning is not filling out a form, entering information into a database, and signing documents. Effective personalized estate planning must include lengthy and comprehensive conversations with a lawyer who dedicates their practice to estate planning.  A good estate planning lawyer will help you spot all types of risks, from being underinsured to caring for…